Let's talk about Valentines day...
Well since it is tomorrow, and everyone always has an opinion on the day... I figured we should talk about it.
Most people either hate the day because they are single and feel alone and left out, or they love it because society has told men that they need to spoil women on this day.
Me... Well it is my Birthday... So I am kind of biased, and have to love it. Although, I really don't.
I have never really enjoyed my birthday being on Valentines day. When I was younger, My friends never could celebrate because they had to baby sit their siblings, or because their parents had plans.
In Junior High school, this got worse, Every girlfriend of mine made it a day about them... I am sorry but your birthday is the one GOD given day of the year that you should be spoiled, and it should be about you!
When I turned 21, It was a group of my 6 guy friends, and my sister and her hubby. That's it. All the gal's decided that their Boo's were more important. Great I get that But SERIOUSLY? I think it is worse when your friends call and say happy B-day and then turn around and do nothing but talk about how it's the best day of their lives because their boyfriend did .... etc such as propose or spoil them. It would be different If I had a female to share this with... but nope.
Now as adult, I am over all of that. Except if you want to go to dinner, Good luck, You better plan it for a different day. It makes it hard to really make you feel it being your day.
I have always been a good girlfriend and gotten my boyfriend, and ex's(when dating at the time) a gift. It is always weird when you have to buy gifts for other people for your brithday/Holiday. Most people either go Awww a love child, or the think that its awsome because you get spoiled, Or the guys love it because they think they can get away with only one gift. Most of the time you get cheated and they only do one...
So I mean I love Valentine's day due to my Birthday...However,
I HATE having it on Valentines day.
What are your opinion's? Do you Love or hate Valentine's Day?
