Let's talk about it...

Let's talk about Valentines day... 

Well since it is tomorrow, and everyone always has an opinion on the day... I figured we should talk about it. 

Most people either hate the day because they are single and feel alone and left out, or they love it because society has told men that they need to spoil women on this day. 

Me... Well it is my Birthday... So I am kind of biased, and have to love it. Although, I really don't. 

I have never really enjoyed my birthday being on Valentines day. When I was younger, My friends never could celebrate because they had to baby sit their siblings, or because their parents had plans.  

In Junior High school, this got worse, Every girlfriend of mine made it a day about them... I am sorry but your birthday is the one GOD given day of the year that you should be spoiled, and it should be about you! 

When I turned 21, It was a group of my 6 guy friends, and my sister and her hubby. That's it. All the gal's decided that their Boo's were more important. Great I get that But SERIOUSLY?  I think it is worse when your friends call and say happy B-day and then turn around and do nothing but talk about how it's the best day of their lives because their boyfriend did .... etc such as propose or spoil them. It would be different If I had a female to share this with... but nope. 

Now as adult, I am over all of that. Except if you want to go to dinner, Good luck,  You better plan it for a different day. It makes it hard to really make you feel it being your day. 

I have always been a good girlfriend and gotten my boyfriend, and ex's(when dating at the time) a gift. It is always weird when you have to buy gifts for other people for your brithday/Holiday. Most people either go Awww a love child, or the think that its awsome because you get spoiled, Or the guys love it because they think they can get away with only one gift. Most of the time you get cheated and they only do one... 

So I mean I love Valentine's day due to my Birthday...However, 

I HATE having it on Valentines day. 

What are your opinion's? Do you Love or hate Valentine's Day?

Getting To Know Me November....

So I have  decided that since November is coming up I would give this a shot. I saw this on a blog I follow that she did last year and loved the Idea! I hope you follow along and understand me a little bit better! Here is the topic questions for each day!

1. List 20 random facts about yourself.
2. Describe 3 legitimate fears you have and explain how they became fears.
3. Describe your relationship with your parents.
4. What is one year you would like to re-live and why?
5. What are the 5 things that make you most happy right now?
6. What is your favorite form of exercise?
7. What is your dream job, and why?
8. What are 5 passions you have?
9. What sound do you love?
10. Describe your most embarrasing moment.
11. Describe 10 pet peeves you have.
12. Describe a typical day in your current life.
13. Describe 5 weaknesses you have.
14. Describe 5 strengths you have.
15. If you were an animal, what would you be and why?
16. What are your 5 greatest accomplishments?
17. What is the thing you most wish you were great at?
18. What has been the most difficult thing you have had to forgive?
19. If you could live anywhere, where would it be and why?
20. Describe 3 significant memories from your childhood.
21. If you could have one superpower, what would it be and what would you do with it first?
22. Where do you see yourself in 5 years? 10 years? 15 years?
23. List your top 5 hobbies and why you love them.
24. Describe your family dynamic of your childhood vs. your family dynamic now.
25. If you could paint a picture of any scenery you’ve seen before, what would you paint? 
26. What songs are included on the soundtrack to your life? 
27. What is your favorite part of your body and why?
28. Have you ever had something happen to you that you thought was bad but it turned out to be for the best?
29. What do you think people misundertand most about you?
30. List 10 things you would hope to be remembered for.